Menstruation - facts and questions
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Here are some of the questions you have asked about menstruation (say men-stroo-ay-shun) (periods). If there is anything else you want to know, or things you can't understand, you can ask your question using the "Feedback" form (click on the "Feedback" link) and we will include it if we can.
Our topic 'Menstruation - having a period' will give you more information.
Do you always have mood swings when you have your period?
Some girls and women have PMS (Pre-Menstrual Syndrome - sometimes called PMT or Pre-Menstrual Tension) which could mean that they feel:
- a bit tired or tense
- a bit weepy, irritable or easily upset
- head-achey, maybe a migraine headache
- bloated and full in their tummy (like it's full of air)
for a few days before and at the start of a period.
Not everyone has all these symptoms, and some girls do not have any. Sometimes girls find they have a lot more energy just before their period starts.
These feelings usually do not last for more than a day or so, but if they are bothering you, have a talk to your mother or your doctor, because there are some things you can do which can make a difference to how you feel. (Ask mum to look up "Periods" in the Parenting section of the Child and Youth Health web-site for some more information).
Do you get cramps when you get your period?
Many girls get cramping pains in their tummy around the beginning of some of their periods - but not all girls get them. Often the cramps start before you begin to lose blood.
A heat bag or hot water bottle on the tummy may help to ease cramps. Try relaxation exercises as well as just doing your usual exercise. This might be enough to help. If you have bad cramps, there are some medications that really help, so don't be afraid to tell someone. Talk to your doctor or chemist.
often do periods come?
Do you always get a period every 28 days?
When you have your first period it may only last one or two days, and then you might not get another one for a couple of months.
At first your periods may not be regular, but after a while if you mark the dates on a calendar you should be able to work out when your period is due. It may not be every 28 days, but it is often somewhere between 21 days and about 35 days. It varies quite a bit with different people, and some girls and women never get really regular periods.
Periods can become irregular for many reasons - including stress, weight loss, weight gain, over-training for sport or fitness, or dieting.
It's a good idea to carry a pad or tampons with you when it gets near the time your period is due so that you are prepared. If you start a period unexpectedly, then get a pad from a friend, ask the teacher or go to the first aid room if you are at school.
Remember that it is not something to feel embarrassed about. Every female understands.
What colour is your period
when you first start?
Your period loss looks like dark reddish-brown blood when you first start, then it becomes a redder colour for later periods. But you are not bleeding as if you have cut yourself. This is just the blood and tissue that your body has prepared in the uterus for a possible baby to 'nest' in. Not pregnant? No baby? No tissue needed. So, your body cleans out the unneeded tissue and blood.
do periods last?
Some girls have short periods (they last about 3 days) but others have longer ones (maybe up to a week). Your pattern will usually stay the same once your periods get regular (after about 6 to 12 months). If your period suddenly gets shorter or longer, there may be a health problem. Have a talk with your doctor.
I am worried because I have very little blood loss during my period and it only lasts for 2 days. Is this a problem?
The average amount of loss is 50ml over 2-7 days. Everyone is different. If this is the normal pattern for you then there is probably no problem. If you are underweight or an athlete in training then this could be the cause. Have a chat with your doctor to make sure that everything is okay.
Sometimes while I have a period I stop menstruating one day and start again the next then stop again. Is this okay?
If your period goes for a couple of days, then stops for a little while, starts again and then finally stops this is usually quite normal. It happens this way for many women. However, if you have been sexually active and you have a very short period that does not start again within about a day or so, this might be a sign that you are pregnant.
is vaginal discharge?
All the tubes in your body are lined with a slippery fluid called mucus. When a girl is almost ready to start menstruating the amount of mucus in her vagina increases. This happens because hormone levels are changing and she is changing from being a child to a woman.
The discharge (discharge means something is pushed out) can vary between being a thin sticky fluid to being a thick sticky jelly. Either is perfectly normal at different times in a girl's menstrual cycle.
Some women can tell when they are ovulating (when an egg comes out of the ovary and goes into the fallopian tube) because they have more discharge and it becomes stickier.
Normal discharge can be clear or whitish in colour and has a slight smell. If there is itching, burning, a colour change or a strong smell this could mean that there is an infection in the vagina and it is time to see a doctor.
If you have a lot of vaginal discharge, wearing cotton underpants or a panty liner may make you feel more comfortable.
You don't have to do anything other than your usual daily shower or bath to keep this area clean. Using deodorants or body sprays can cause problems and soreness.
Do you always get pimples when it's your period?
Some people do find that they get more spots around the time their period is due, but everyone is more likely to get pimples during the teenage years because skin gets oilier. Have a look at the information on our Zits (acne) page, for more information about pimples.
or heavy periods
How do you know if your period is going to be light or heavy?
Your period may be light (a small flow of blood that lasts a couple of days) or heavy (a bigger flow of blood that soaks your pad more quickly or lasts longer). Sometimes your period can be heavy for the first day or two and then it becomes light till it finishes.
You get most information about what your next period will be like from what happened the time before. Keep track on the calendar of when your periods come and how heavy they are, and you will see the pattern of your periods. It is unlikely that you will have a very heavy period your first time, and many girls do not get heavy periods for several months after they start - some girls and women never have heavy periods. (How heavy your periods are doesn't make any difference when you want to have a baby).
do periods start?
How will you know when you might be starting periods?
Ask mum when she started her periods, as girls often follow the same pattern as their mothers. Get to know your body. If you can see the changes which mean you are starting puberty (breasts developing or feeling tender, weight gain, getting curvier, hair under arms and in the genital area) have a talk with mum about getting you some pads.
Many girls have their first period about a year after they start having some of the other changes of puberty.
Some girls get a bit of tummy pain for an hour or so for a couple of months before their periods start.
When do you stop getting periods?
Women stop getting periods when they are pregnant and when they reach menopause. Menopause (say men-o-paws) just means that menstruation stops. It doesn't stop dead but is a gradual process, where periods become less frequent until they stop altogether, usually around the ages of 45-55.
Stress, going on a strict diet, very heavy exercise and illness can also stop periods for a while.
you use tampons?
Do you have to have sex or be older before you are able to use a tampon?
No, you can use a tampon as soon as you start periods if you want to, and if you find it comfortable. It takes a bit of practice at first to be able to get it in comfortably, but if you follow the instructions on the packet it should not be a problem. People used to think that a tampon could not be inserted into the vagina of a girl before she had sexual intercourse because there is a thin membrane, or layer of skin (called the hymen) which is across the opening of the vagina. It doesn't actually go right across; there is a gap for menstrual blood to flow through. Using a tampon would stretch this gap.
Would I still be a virgin if I used tampons?
Yes. Using a tampon makes no difference to your virginity. The meaning of the word 'virgin' is that the person has not had sexual intercourse.
Is it OK to wash your hair or go swimming during a period?
Having a period is absolutely normal and there is no reason why you can't go on with your normal activities during a period. You can go on having baths or showers and washing your hair and doing all of the other things that you normally do.
Exercise is good for you during your period (like it is at any other time) but usually people who want to go swimming will find that using a tampon works best, as it does not get wet like a pad would. If you are swimming somewhere that a bit of blood staining the water won't get noticed (eg in the sea) you don't have to wear a pad or tampon while you swim but have a pad handy to slip inside your bathers when you come out if you are not able to change into your clothes right away - (wrapping a towel around you will make sure that no-one notices). Take out the tampon as soon as you can and put in a new one.
Sea or pool water cannot get up through your vagina into the inside of your body. (Note: tampons won't make you better swimmers or athletes, though - whatever some ads may suggest!)
A lot of girls were concerned about having accidents and getting blood on their clothes, sheets of a friend's bed, etc.
You can ask for help from women or girls around you and you can always use your school jumper (or your friend's) tied around your waist to get you to where you can get some help without being embarrassed. Just as all women have periods, all men know that they do, so if any immature person tries giving you a hard time, you have got every woman on your side!
Washing blood off clothes
Blood washes off clothes best if cold water is used and you wash the clothes as soon as you can. Hot water makes the blood stay where it is.
Is it OK to do sport when you're having a period?
Exercise is good for releasing tension, pain and stress and releases chemicals which make you feel good. Periods are part of a female's life and need not stop anyone from carrying on her usual activities.
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