The ways people bring up their children may be different but we all want the best for our children. |
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We would like them to become healthy, happy, well adjusted, successful, honest grown ups who will respect others' feelings and belongings, be able to get along with others and be able to cope with difficulties |
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As a parent you will have a range of feelings which are all normal and yet which can make you feel a bit out of control at times. |
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You may feel love, joy and pride, but you might also feel anger, panic, hopelessness and hate at times.
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Most mothers at some time feel tired and upset and wonder what it's all about. |
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It is important to remember you are not expected to be perfect and that all parents feel they have made mistakes at some stage. |
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 Most parents learn as
they go, and from the
way they were bought up,
or by what they have read or watched others do.
Find out as much as you
can about how children develop, so you know
what to expect. |
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Don't be afraid to ask for help from others, and keep on believing in yourself. If you have a problem with anger, violence or depression, get help.
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| Here are some things to think about: |
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What does your child need to live well and happily in today's world? |
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What traditional ways and beliefs help children to grow up in cities, towns and in the country? |
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What are the special things about your baby? |
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When your baby grows older, how would you like to be able to describe him or her? |
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The information in this topic was developed by
Child and Youth Health with help from:
- Aboriginal families and women from a number of
Aboriginal-focused Playgroups
- Young Mum's groups in Adelaide
- Aboriginal staff from CYH
- Pika Wiya Health Service
- Aboriginal Health Council
- Aboriginal Health Worker Forum |
Acknowledgement:
- Background image, copyright with permission, R Taylor. |
With thanks to:
- Waltja Tjutangku Palyapayi Aboriginal Corporation whose work
'Pipirri Palya - kids are good' guided us. |